Category Archives: Appreciate

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May

2009

You’ve Already Got It

Written, just for you, by Kimberly Virdure-King

First we want a thing, and then we pursue the thing.  When we get it, we want the thing to be another thing or we want a new thing all together.
Wanting, pursuing, then wanting again keeps life fresh and inspires us to continually reach new levels of contentment and satisfaction… ideally.  We sometimes allow our [...]

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19

Apr

2009

What Does Simply Do You Mean?

Written, just for you, by Kimberly Virdure-King

“Simply do you? What does that mean?”
“What does simply doing you mean to you?”
“… that I do whatever I want to.”
I’ve had the conversation many times and I’m always amused at the furrowed brows I see when I reply with, “How often does what you want to do support who you are?”
So what does simply [...]

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18

Apr

2009

She Says, He Thinks

Written, just for you, by Kimberly Virdure-King

“We need to talk”.
I’ve certainly approached more than a few relationship dilemmas that way. As a woman, I am biologically wired to talk (and write) through my feelings. Society and conditioning have taught us women that talking things through is the best way to bring about any love-related change we crave.
Women have a strong desire to [...]

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08

Apr

2009

Check Your Perceptions of Others

Written, just for you, by Kimberly Virdure-King

How many of your perceptions of others have come from a third, fourth or fifth party?
Be honest. No one else can hear your thoughts, so have a moment of Truth.
Here’s an example that’ll take you to where I’m going…
Let’s say Person B told you Person A was an ambitious workaholic. You, Person C, took what [...]

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