Category Archives: Be Connected

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Dec

2009

Is Simply Doing You A License To Do Whatever?

Written, just for you, by Kimberly Virdure-King

Some say, “I’m just being me…”, as they fall back on their childhood and other past experiences to justify lying, cheating and stealing. Some people blame others for violations they know to be dishonorable by saying, “hey, they made me do that, what else could I do?”
Is simply doing you a license to do whatever? [...]

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19

Apr

2009

What Does Simply Do You Mean?

Written, just for you, by Kimberly Virdure-King

“Simply do you? What does that mean?”
“What does simply doing you mean to you?”
“… that I do whatever I want to.”
I’ve had the conversation many times and I’m always amused at the furrowed brows I see when I reply with, “How often does what you want to do support who you are?”
So what does simply [...]

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18

Apr

2009

She Says, He Thinks

Written, just for you, by Kimberly Virdure-King

“We need to talk”.
I’ve certainly approached more than a few relationship dilemmas that way. As a woman, I am biologically wired to talk (and write) through my feelings. Society and conditioning have taught us women that talking things through is the best way to bring about any love-related change we crave.
Women have a strong desire to [...]

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08

Apr

2009

Check Your Perceptions of Others

Written, just for you, by Kimberly Virdure-King

How many of your perceptions of others have come from a third, fourth or fifth party?
Be honest. No one else can hear your thoughts, so have a moment of Truth.
Here’s an example that’ll take you to where I’m going…
Let’s say Person B told you Person A was an ambitious workaholic. You, Person C, took what [...]

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