Tag Archives: Insecurities

07

Dec

2009

Is Simply Doing You A License To Do Whatever?

Some say, “I’m just being me…”, as they fall back on their childhood and other past experiences to justify lying, cheating and stealing. Some people blame others for violations they know to be dishonorable by saying, “hey, they made me do that, what else could I do?”
Is simply doing you a license to do whatever? [...]

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19

Apr

2009

What Does Simply Do You Mean?

“Simply do you? What does that mean?”
“What does simply doing you mean to you?”
“… that I do whatever I want to.”
I’ve had the conversation many times and I’m always amused at the furrowed brows I see when I reply with, “How often does what you want to do support who you are?”
So what does simply [...]

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08

Apr

2009

Check Your Perceptions of Others

How many of your perceptions of others have come from a third, fourth or fifth party?
Be honest. No one else can hear your thoughts, so have a moment of Truth.
Here’s an example that’ll take you to where I’m going…
Let’s say Person B told you Person A was an ambitious workaholic. You, Person C, took what [...]

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24

Mar

2009

When the Love of Your Life Leaves

The question of what to do when the love of your life leaves was asked of me recently.
This one is easy as within the question lies a blaring contradiction. The phrase ‘love of your life’ implies a mutual commitment. Love is commitment, plain and simple. As you watch their backside fade into the distance, you [...]

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